Coming Soon – Through and From The Lens

At the end of a quick Zoom session where I had shown Marifran Korb a how-to on her website, she started speaking of videos I could be doing to promote the upcoming Through and From The Lens course. She said we could do one “right now”.  I, of course, said I wasn’t dressed for it, etc.  She said we both where fine. It was sharing what she got experiencing the course a few years ago.

In the Through and From The Lens course you practice using your eyes and camera to capture what you see in the moment.  This video is also a demo of capturing our speaking in the moment.

The 6-week program (not 8 weeks as mentioned  the “Notify Me” From the Lens page) will be starting in the latter part of September.  For more details on what will be  available for you in the course, tap or click on From the Lens. You’ll see the Notify-me button.

Providing your name and email address will ensure that you can be one of the 10 participants. Because the class is highly-interactive, one of the benefits, it needs to be limited in size. Tap or click on Notify Me.


Rhythm and Flow – Viewing Life in New Ways

My being has been telling me to return to publishing Treasure Your Life Now blog post on a regular basis, to establish a new rhythm and flow (see story in “Today’s Photo” below for the connection)

lines and textures in orange hibiscus flower close-upPhoto is © Sheila Finkelstein, originally marked as the site it was on

As I’ve been going back over photos and queries in issues over the past 14 plus years, the view of the photo above grabbed my attention.  What I wrote in that issue 118 in June 2005 follows: 

Closing in on a portion of an hibiscus.

I planned to give you the full view of the hibiscus that beckoned me to photograph it as I glanced out my dining room window. The next day, when I selected the photo, I started studying it to see what it was that caught my attention. 

Orange Hibiscus photo by Sheila Finkelstein

There was the color and its delicacy and definitely the rhythm and the flow in the shadows, textures and the edges of the petals. I, then closed in on it with the cropping tool and liked the resulting overall image. 


Have as light and flowing a week and weekend as this hibiscus section suggests, filled with soft and gentle color…bright colors, also, for those of you who wish them.


Pay attention to what catches your eyes this next week.

Is there a rhythm and flow to what you are looking at? Is it one that appeals to you?

As I write, the different and many jumpy elements I’ve recently created in my life are cropping up for me.

Why not,” I suggest to myself, “try on creating the rhythm and gentleness of this flower for the next few days?”
I will!

Is there a visual in your life, or perhaps an auditory piece, that you can find that you can use as a symbol to match what you would like to be achieving?

If these photos, story and suggestions moved you to take on something new for you, or you have other observations or comments, please leave your comment below this post.

As always, stay open to shifting perspectives, enriching your life.




This Poppy flower urges being bold and direct

Given that over the years it’s been one or more photos that have been the focus of these posts, I’m granting this poppy prime space. She has been sitting on my computer desktop urging me to get bold and to the point.

I’ve been holding back from being direct, waiting for the “perfect” page, words, etc. I’m sure you can fill in the blanks.  Bottom line I am delighted to announce and invite you to join me in the upcoming revised THROUGH AND FROM THE LENS: The Joy of Living and Seeing Creatively.

It’s an 8-Session Interactive online program where your camera is the tool to opening you up to seeing things in many new and different ways, both your inner world as well as your outer world. Any camera works and can provide answers to the queries in the image below.
When you look at the list above, what would make the most difference in your life…unleashing your creativity…? gaining greater self-confidence in making necessary decisions…? or simply experiencing joy, freedom and play in your life, as you start seeing and experiencing bountiful new perspectives?

Is finding or deepening the answers important to you? If so, I invite to join us with the link above or on the image.

The program starts in less than 2 weeks on Wednesday, October 17th. If you’d like to learn more and get a taste of the experience before registering, I’d love to have you join me and a few past participants in a FREE online overview on Wednesday night (Eastern), October 10th.  See TFTL – Intro

The poppy above, amongst other flowers and even a rock, also wanted to be included in this issue. She represents finding a pride in self in a diverse community. This is one of the powers participants experience in Through and From The Lens: The Joy of Living and Seeing Creatively.

Self-Reflecting Queries 
Again, pursuant to the questions at the beginning of this issue:

Do you know and accept your own creativity? If not, what might be available to you in your life, if you were to experience and acknowledge it?

For years, or however long you’ve followed these posts, you’ve likely looked at shifting perspectives in various situations in your life.  What if even more of this were available to you on a regular basis?

And, FUN… Is that something you’d like more of? What if it were happening in a community of new friends as well as in your current environments?

If any of the above strikes some kind of chord in you, I invite you to check the links below.

If you know you are ready to reserve your space in the Through and From The Lens program… limited to the first 10 participants… then go directly to TFTL – Program for full details and registration.

If you have questions, you can experience some of what’s possible in the program at the same time get an overview of it in the free online introduction on Wednesday, 10/10. Click or tap on TFTL – Intro to register for it. I’d love to meet with you “live” in my office.

Your Updates 
As always I would love to read what’s happening with you in your world and your responses to what I’ve shared here.  Please comment in the REPLY space below this post.

How can you get through rigid blocks? Answer in Avocado pit video

As a reminder in the previous post here, I wrote about, and showed a flower photograph I had taken years ago. The “hidden face” in the flower that initially had eluded me has become  a wake-up call for me to also come out of hiding.

The challenge for me, as I imagine it may be for you, is that I often go in so many different directions, with varied ideas and photo-seeings continually popping up. It becomes challenging to know which to present here.  In last week’s article I mentioned that playing with dried out pieces of vegetables, then hydrating them is part of what’s had me come alive.

One astounding discovery for me was that a rock-hard slice of avocado pit, became squeezable and could be pulled apart once it was hydrated.  See video below. In it I invite you to reflect:

Sheila Finkelstein hold a rock-hard slice of an avocado pit

Self-Reflecting Query
“Where and with what/whom in your life can you get hydration and nourishment, particularly if you are confronted with what seems like a solid, impenetrable block or wall?

Do you choose to move forward or stay put?”

My Story
For me, interacting with/listening to my coach, friends and associates who have experienced me, my photos and courses over the years AND then letting it finally sink in, has made all the difference.

One astute friend, also a past course participant, gave me some very valuable feedback in response to a question I had asked. She pointed out that I “overthink” things and that I have a brand. “Stick to it”. When asked what she saw my brand as, she responded, “You teach people to see creatively!”

Wow! It was right on for me and I had never thought of it in that way… so simplified, actually summarized all that I’ve been doing and love doing.

Invitation for You to Query
I invite you to ask someone what they see as your role in life… your brand… how they would best describe you.  I especially suggest doing this if you are stuck on something.

​​​​​​​Result for Me
My friend’s statement freed me up to more easily continue on with revising and expanding the Through and From The Lens Course: The Joy of Living and Seeing Creatively. It also helped me in creating the tagline and more easily share what I do!

The course info page is almost complete, mainly with editing needed in the “My Story” section.  You can see what’s in the works by clicking/tapping on TFTL – Through and From the Lens.

Additional Photos for this Issue –
Since I’ve been talking about vegetables and in the last issue I included a video with red onion pieces (link at the bottom of this email), I thought you might enjoy this photo of my latest Red Onion “eye-catcher”.

Perhaps “she” is celebrating my become Mother for the first time 56 years today! Or what do you see?


You may see a variety of other images AND if you go to the blog you’ll see this one and 1 others showing different perspective.

A further celebration, the end of a beautiful sunset, seen on a neighborhood walk. Path to the Future?


Neighborhood Sunset

As I explored I continued more noticing and discovering that shriveled up pieces of vegetables became resilient again when I hydrated them. Then I, too, became more resilient, excited and alive.

I would love to read what’s happening with you and your responses to what I’ve shared here.  You are welcome to reply directly to Sheila[a] or comment in the REPLY space below this post


I’ve Been Hiding Out Like the Face in the Flower

“Is it Over?” asked the Lysianthus bud who had wanted to open up and be full and beautiful.

Lisianthus flower - bud at end of broken stem

This bud and flower, with the query, have been sitting on my desktop for several weeks waiting for me to take action and send them to you…simply, sadly waiting.

Pink Lisianthus flowerThen I came across these photos from one of the very early issues of Picture to Ponder in February 2005.

Tropical Bromeliad with Hidden Face

Do you see the almost “hidden” face? When I recently looked at the photo I did not see it initially, even after I read that it was there.  It was in “hiding”.

Hidden Face in Tropical Bromeliad

Then it hit me that I, too, have been “hiding out”… from you my community whom I’ve so appreciated over the years… some who have been here from the beginning 14 years ago coming up in December!  And, I’ve been hiding out from myself.

Going back over the past years, I found comments many readers and people whom I’ve coached had made, often about the differences my photos, stories and queries had sparked in them.

Some of the story behind this is that I was operating under the assumption that readers expected me to follow the format originally set up – a photo, or photos…description and/or story of it/them….then one, or more, Self-Reflecting Queries.  Added to that was one or more relevant Relationship Tips when I added/converted to Treasure Your Life Now as the title.

Although I’ve continued to take “eye-catcher” photos, they weren’t sparking “Queries” for me, as such, so rather than continue to “struggle” with not living into “readers’ (presumed) expectations”, I stopped writing and publishing “Photos and Queries”.

I forgot that I was the one who had set the “rules”, not you. And  I NEVER checked them out with you or gave you a chance to experience satisfaction with my work however you wished to receive it.

I’ve not followed one of my own persistent themes throughout the Picture to Ponder history, “Always check with those with whom you are communicating exactly what it is they ARE thinking or saying before interacting with the from what you assume it is.”

I invite you to look into your life… Are there any places where you’ve been stopping/hiding out based on your assumptions of what another person, or other people, are expecting from you?  If so, I invite you to check this out with them.

With that, I’d also like to hear what it is you would like to see from me… how I can be supporting you in fulfilling your life’s desires. See YOUR UPDATES below.

RE, my first question, “Is it over?”

No, Treasure Your Life Now Ezine and blog is not over.  With this post I simply want to say, I am back. I will share my “noticings”… sometimes including links to videos I’ve been creating in a variety of ways. I’ve especially been loving the iMovie app on my iPhone.

In the over a year since I’ve communicated here, despite feeling somewhat bored with it, I’ve continued taking photos of wood knots and other images as they caught my eye on my walks.

And then I finally started taking photos again in my home of flowers, cut fruits and vegetables. I began to really feel myself becoming more alive!  Once again I was having fun noticing all kinds of different images in the shapes and textures as I played with pieces and particles.

To get a sense of what I’ve been experiencing, I invite you to “meet me” in “Beauty and Play – Red Onion and Some Hair“. Tap/click on the link or on the image below:
Beauty and Play - Red Onion and Some Hair - VideoAs I explored I continued more noticing and discovering that shriveled up pieces of vegetables became resilient again when I hydrated them. Then I, too, became more resilient, excited and alive.

It’s the wanting to share that with others that had me start doing more videos, experimenting with different ways of creating them. I will include a video with the hydration story in the next post.

I will also be announcing my upcoming expanded course known, in the past, to increase creativity, left brain and right brain activity, as we explore different elements in our worlds using our cameras… shift perspectives, resulting in fun, play and ease in life in general and even more quickly find alternative solutions to everyday challenges that crop up.

I would love to read what’s happening with you and your responses to what I’ve shared here.  Please comment in the REPLY space below this post.

Shifting Perspectives through the Lens of a Glass then a Plastic Bottle

In looking over some past issues of Picture to Ponder, one that kept cropping up was a post that featured distorted visual views and perspectives that I discovered and documented with my iPhone camera. In videos I shared the fun I had doing it. Given the current political climate, it feels appropriate to take a deep breath, lighten up for a few minutes and look at distortions through aesthetic and fun perceptions.

The post below is adapted from one in 2011.  My Mother’s Day gift that year was a loving weekend with one of my sons and his family at a Disney World resort. On the first morning, I was sitting on an upper balcony finishing writing my Morning Pages as I drank my daily lemon water. As I completed, I got excited as my eye suddenly noticed the reflections and distortions visible through the glass.

Distortion - Eye reflected through bottom of glass bottle -

I immediately grabbed my iPhone camera to document the experience wanting to savor it later  and to share with subscribers. In the first photo I held the glass against my face with the camera positioned at the bottom of the glass.

Then looking across the balcony:

Distortions - looking across the water through a glass bottle in taking a large number of still photos, I switched to the video camera on my iPhone. The first was shot horizontally; the second, vertically.

Video through a glass on balcony looking over water in http://TreasureYourLLifeNow.comTap or click on the image above to see horizontal video view on the balcony and across the way.
video Vertical view looking through a glass on balcony at Bonnet Creek on http://Treasureyourlifenow.comTap or click on image above, or click on Vertical Video, to see a different perspective. Also, on the technical end, note when holding the phone vertically you get a lot of black on each side when showing on YouTube. Thus, horizontal views are usually best.

Different Lens – More Perspectives
The following day, I played with taking photos through a plastic bottle as seen in the images below. In the upper photo, there is still some water in the bottle. The lower one shows the water drops on the side, inside the bottle.

reflections through a bottle
Reflections through a Plastic Bottle

Self-Reflecting Queries –

These photos, videos and my experiences highlight, in a different way, a recurring theme in Picture to Ponder/ Treasure Your Life Now… that of many ways of seeing and what happens when we shift perspectives.

How often in life do we “distort” reality to fit, perhaps, preconceived images or beliefs that we have? When we do, we may recognize what we are doing and yet it seems to be a struggle and a burden to make any kind of shift. Very often it’s fear of the unknown.

The distortions and reflections in today’s photos show that there can be fun and play in being open and making shifts. For me, the videos are an added demonstration of the lightness and fun that can be brought into play when changing our perspectives.

I invite you to look into your life right now.

Is there any place where you are feeling stuck? where something may feel “heavy”? If so, I invite you to bring some “play” to it. Is there a way you can be seeing it, in fun? If so, what has shifted for you?

And, if all feels great, light and easy, is there still a place where you might bring a playfulness, discovery and exploration and find some new expansion?

As always, have fun, and please share in Leave a Reply below what comes up for you.

2017 New Year’s Greetings and What’s Next Query

This first post for 2017 of Treasure Your Life Now/Picture to Ponder brings with it wishes for your walking the path to lightness and brightness throughout this year and beyond.

The year ended with brilliant sunset skies and clouds in South Florida and elsewhere throughout the state, as well as in other areas of the country.

A Request

As you look forward to where the light will be for you, I am querying my own direction.  As much as I’ve been focused on Technology for Boomers and Seniors, I am also being reminded of my Passion for Photography and how many of my varying perspectives have impacted many of you in seeing your worlds differently.

I would very much appreciate your letting me know in the Leave a Reply box at the end of this post the focus you would appreciate seeing in the Treasure Your Life Now ezine in 2017 – More Photos?  Specific subjects? Continued Self-Reflecting Queries? Relationship Tips?

Photos and Video – Continued
Below are two other of other photos from that night of December 30, 2016 and then video wishes from me.

Fiery Sunset Clouds in Green Cay Wetlands posted on
On the way out of Green Cay Past the Fiery Sunset
Clouds exiting Green Cay Wetlands, past the fiery sunset

Below is a video acknowledging 2016 with best wishes for 2017 done at Green Cay, sunset on December 29, 2016. Simply tap or click here or on the image to hear me.

Goodbye 2016 - Healthy, Love-Filled, Joyous and Prosperous New Year 2017 on http://TreasureYour And speaking of videos… 
Creating and Sharing Slideshow or Other Videos – 

In the last Treasure Your Life Now post, I shared some how-to’s on different ways of creating videos, including slideshow videos.  See Celebrating You – Photos and Easy Video Creation for the post.

I wrote, “Because of my own excitement, I am considering doing a follow-up “live” group session on Easy Video Creation and Sharing in mid-January, where I can demo some of the above for you.

If you are interested in learning more, please tap or click on the Notify Me form and fill in your name and email address. The Celebrating You issue also has links to different video playlists with examples of different formats.  Again see Celebrating You.

Repeating – Request for Your Input
I would very much appreciate your letting me know in the comments section below this post the focus you would appreciate seeing on Treasure Your Life Now in 2017 – More Photos?  Specific subjects? Continued Self-Reflecting Queries? Relationship Tips?

Any other comments you wish to make are more than welcome. Please Leave a Reply in the box at the end of this post.

Celebrating You – Photos and Easy Video Creation

Before going further I want to wish you a Happy Holiday – Celebrating You, Wishing you Love, Peace and Joy as you Treasure the Special Moments in your life.

Candy Cane Lily - Celebrating You
The format of this email is a little different from what I usually do in Treasure Your Life Now/Picture to Ponder with Photos, Self-Reflecting Queries and a Relationship tip.In addition to Celebrating You, I wanted to give you an overview of what’s been happening creatively and artistically in my life the past week… inviting you to see what, if any activities, might be relevant for you… particularly in the area of creation with photographs you take, including with your mobile devices.

Last week I shared the start of my birthday celebration with photos from the Candy Cane Lilies bouquet I received. The flowers were mainly in the bud stages. I was so excited to watch their transformation that I’ve been taking numerous photos daily AND creating video slideshows, uploading them to YouTube. The above photo was taken today on Day 7.

I am assuming that digital, tablet and phone cameras will be in high use in the next week or two.  Are you one who currently comfortably takes photos and videos?Originally I planned to give you an OVERVIEW of different ways of creating videos for easy connection with those whom you care about and/or for simple relaxation. Then I realized since I did a blog post on it, I will simply give you the link to look it over if this is something that might interest you.

In the content below there are links to playlists I’ve created on YouTube. There is also an opportunity to request notification for a free group simple video creation overview and Q&A session on easily using your photos.

And, if your are stuck for a gift for a Tech challenged person there is a link for a 15 minute exploratory session prior to see if a gift certificate for private coaching is a fit. There is also a special on Banana Sky DVD, a video slideshow with healing music.

Creating and Sharing Slideshow or Other Videos
As I mentioned, I did a post on my Technology for Boomers site going over a few different ways that videos can be created using selected photos to assemble a video slideshow with music.  To see the,  tap or click on Celebrate Life – Easily Create and Share Slideshow Videos.

Tapping or clicking on the image right below will bring you to my YouTube playlist with three Candy Cane Lilies videos. shares Candy Striped Lilies in YouTube Video Playlist Tapping of Clicking on the next image will bring you to the start of the Slideshow Videos Playlist, with a variety of quick videos I’ve done in this way, originally on my computer from downloaded photos.Now some are done directly with my iPhone. In addition to what’s an integral part of the devices… Android also… there are free (and minimally priced) Apps for video creation. AND Facebook, for those of you who use it, now offers the opportunity for creating videos.

Of course, there is also the video recorder on the mobile devices as well as digital cameras.  Some of my processes are detailed in the above-mentioned blog post.

By easily uploading to YouTube or Facebook you can share with others as well as watch your own videos for peace and relaxation. If you have not yet tried it, those of you on Facebook will discover how simple it is AND very quick to upload there.

Below is an image of the partial listing of 16 videos current in this playlist as I write here. To see the full playlist and watch the videos, tap or click on Slideshow Videos starting with Sunset Clouds. shares Section of Slideshow Videos Playlist on YouTube Some with YouTube music Because of my own excitement, I am considering doing a follow-up “live” group session on Easy Video Creation and Sharing in mid-January, where I can demo some of the above for you.

If you are interested in learning more, please tap or click on the Notify Me form and fill in your name and email address.

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Continuing on with the Slideshow Video conversation here, my BANANA SKY DVD video slide show with healing music is perfect for de-stressing. It plays continuously on a TV DVD recorder or on your computer. When I first created it, I found the result so relaxing, I made it available so others could experience it also. Again, see Banana Sky DVD page for preview and testimonials.

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Do you still need a GIFT for a Tech-Challenged Family Member or friend? I invite you to consider a Gift Certificate for Private Coaching on Your/Their Biggest Technical Challenges. See Coaching Gift Certificate or schedule a free 15- minute exploratory session at 15-minute Tech Challenge Exploration.

Again, Happy Holidays. Enjoy photographing and the time you spend connecting with those important to you.

Added special thoughts and blessings to those who may be going through some challenging times now.

COMMENTS ARE WELCOME in the Reply Section below…

Where is your Focus? on the Big Picture or the Parts?

Over the years, we’ve talked about Focus in Picture to Ponder/Treasure Your Life now. In preparing for this issue, several ideas had been running around in my head and I hadn’t taken action yet. Then I got a delivery of flowers for my birthday from my beloved son, daughter-in-law and grandsons in another state. - Candy stripe lily bud straight onThe “focus” idea came to me.  “Where would I/we find the most richness… in the overview of the whole bouquet, or in the individual flowers?”

What adds to the interest for me is that these flowers, “Candy Stripe Lilies,” are new to me AND most of the flowers in the bouquet are still in bud stage. Being more lengthy buds than the flowers I’ve usually photographed, I’m interested to see what develops. - Candy stripe lily bud longIt will also be interesting to see this seemingly pink flower turn into something different. So certainly looking at the parts intrigues me.

What happens when I/we look at the full picture? - Candy stripe lilies bouquet mostly budsWhen I look at the full picture my eye gravitates to the parts. In the above photo I notice the “zebra” striping in the vase. I wonder if anyone else will notice it and be disturbed with it. It seems I’m most often thinking of the other person first or is it about my “looking good.”  I, of venetian blinds in the red vase… an easy fix if I want for future photographs.

Self-Reflecting Queries
So now we come to you. I invite you to take on the “Where is My Focus” query in your life… in your visual world and in your internal world.
Is it the big picture or individual parts?  Does it differ when you look at what’s around you in your physical space from what happens in your internal space… your mental thoughts, planning, etc.? Or is it analogous?

Might becoming more aware of this help you move you forward in your life?  Or perhaps simply accepting who you are… your style.

Relationship Tip 

Keep in mind as you are noticing more how you view your worlds… in parts or as a whole… those people with whom you are communicating might be seeing things totally differently. It always pays to check with them on what their perspectives are.


Please share any of your experiences, as you read today’s issue, in the “Leave a Reply” section at the bottom of this post.


Are you still looking for a Perfect Holiday Gift …   
for someone who is frustrated and technology challenged?
for one with whom you wish you could have easier communication?
for maybe even yourself?

Check out the opportunity to give a gift certificate with for up to 8 hours, in hour sessions with me.  Fears will be changed to freedom in using their technology.

Perfect for Seniors and Boomers – For details and ordering information click or tap on 
Tech Coaching Gift Certificates.

Birthdays Celebration Special – Last week, as I mentioned, was Picture to Ponder’s Birthday. Mine is tomorrow, the 17th. – In Celebration I’m offering a special on Banana Sky DVD, my photography and healing music by Jeannie Fitzsimmons.

A description, testimonials and a one-minute video preview can be seen by clicking or tapping on Banana Sky DVD. Normally $9.99… Special $5.00 through December 31st. Simply use the link on that page.


Celebrating 12 Years of Picture to Ponder – Treasure Your Life Now ezine

I’m excited to share that the Picture to Ponder Ezine was launched twelve years ago today, December 9, 2004. It was my way of sharing photos, with emphasis on using a camera to inspire seeing our worlds in new and different, expanded ways. See Issue 1 for my initial introduction. At first it was mainly a photo with the story of it the next day, so viewers could experience the image without being colored by my experience. Over time it changed to be the same day and the “Self-Reflecting Queries” evolved. wishes Happy 12th Birthday to Picture to Ponder / Treasure Your Life Now ezineIn celebration it seemed fitting to offer a special price on Banana Sky DVD which evolved from Picture to Ponder (see below).  Then I got the idea to also prepare a slideshow of selected photos from the 2,300 plus photos that have been published in the ezine during the past 12 years.

Moving away from my “Perfectionism” tendency, it became much easier and more time efficient to upload a video slideshow I discovered I had put together a few years ago and never shared.  To watch the video, or quickly scroll through it, tap or click on the image below or on Photo Slideshow Video. presents video slide show of early photos from Picture to Ponder.

Picture to Ponder / Treasure Your Life Now Archives
For those who might want to visit any of the early issues or Picture to Ponder or any thereafter, links follow. Click or tap on Issue 1 to see the first issue and follow the arrows at the bottom of the pages for the next two issues.

Ezezine was the publisher I used, starting with issue 4 through July 2008. I appreciate their generosity in maintaining the Archives of those years – See Archives 2004-2008.  

Tap or click on Archives – 2008-2016 for all the issues published through aWeber between July 2008 and now.  From July 2008 to July 2015 you can also see them on and from April 2015 to present.

Self-Reflecting Queries
I stated above that I put aside my wanting-to-be-perfect personna and chose to upload an existing photo slideshow video that I discovered I had done.

I invite you to look at some of your own patterns and behaviors.  How often does perfectionism kick in for you? Can you identify patterns of times or situations when it’s stronger than others?

What might the costs be for you? For instance for me, it’s usually a loss of time… sometimes extended… resulting in a lot of inaction… sometimes tasks and projects never getting complete.

At times there have also been relationship costs. Waiting to figure out the “right” thing to say…worrying about how what I say may land… what’s he or she going to think of me… and more…has on occasion had a negative impact on one or more of my relationships.

Insofar as communicating, throughout the years in Picture to Ponder/Treasure Your Life Now, I’ve suggested prefacing any comments starting with “I” statements… “I want you to know…”… “This is about me, not you…” “What’s going on for me is….” Perhaps concluding with asking, “What is happening on your end?”

Please share in the Reply space below any of your experiences as you read today’s issue.

Birthdays Celebration Special – Picture to Ponder’s Birthday and mine next week. – Normally $9.99… Special $5.00 through December 19th. 

Those of you who have been subscribers for some time, probably remember my launch in 2007 of Banana Sky DVD, my photography and healing music by Jeannie Fitzsimmons. The photos were taken during a time of extreme stress that I was experiencing with what the effects of Parkinson’s Disease was having on my husband and, thus, me.

In addition to the peace I felt when taking the photos, I experienced further relaxation when seeing them in a slideshow on my computer. This had me put together the endless loop (continuous play) DVD that works on both a DVD player for TV, as well as a computer DVD recorder.

It’s an opportunity for the viewer to experience stress reduction and relaxation in 11 minutes (or less). The feeling carries much beyond the viewing time.  See the Banana Sky DVD page for a one-minute video preview, plus further description and testimonials and, of course, the opportunity to buy. It makes a great small gift and a good opportunity to purchase a few to have on hand.

For Those in Business
David Perdew, Founder of NAMS – Novice to Advanced Marketing Systems – has once again put together December Specials with some exciting tried and proven products for Internet Marketers. If that’s you, I invite you to tap or click on DECEMBER DEALS to see if there’s anything there in the upcoming days that might be a fit for you.

Thank you for celebrating with me and the Picture to Ponder / Treasure Your Life Now subscribers.